{"id":3050,"date":"2014-11-03T19:36:55","date_gmt":"2014-11-03T09:36:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.4elise.com\/?p=3050"},"modified":"2014-11-16T19:48:23","modified_gmt":"2014-11-16T09:48:23","slug":"first-steps-towards-toys-and-a-bit-of-separation-anxiety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/4elise.com\/wordpress\/first-steps-towards-toys-and-a-bit-of-separation-anxiety\/","title":{"rendered":"First steps towards toys and a bit of separation anxiety"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sofia woke up at 6am so I got her. She had a snack and a play whilst I made us brekky. Mike got up at the end and took over do I could have a shower. Then he got ready for work. For the first time today Sofia let us know she didn&#8217;t want him to leave with a sound. She got a bit sad after he went out the door so I showed her daddy getting into the car and taking off and I talked about what was happening. Not sure if it helped, but at least it didn&#8217;t make it worse. After a short play it was time for a nap. Sofia slept for almost 1.5hours.<\/p>\n<p>When Sofia woke up she had a snack and we went grocery shopping. When we got back we played. Sofia went to me a couple of times with a few steps, but also went between things herself. She dared to let go and give it a try &#8211; yay! She landed on her bum a couple of times, but she also went quite a few steps a couple of times. I can&#8217;t wait for her to become less snotty so I can take her to the playground so she can move around properly. Then we had lunch. He rubbed her eyes a couple of times at the end, but refused to say she was done. I finally had to make the decision for her and put her to bed. She cried the first minute of the routine, but after just a couple if minutes in bed she was asleep &#8211; and she slept for 1.5 hours. She must have needed it.<\/p>\n<p>When Sofia woke up she had a snack and then we played for abut and read a few books. Then I started dinner and she kept playing in the playroom. I was amazed how well she played by herself today. The dog was a different story however. Poor thing hadn&#8217;t had a walk so I can&#8217;t really get mad at him. The Houdini dog did mange to find his way in and out of the kitchen &#8211; stealing Sofia&#8217;s toys and driving me nuts. Then Sofia let me know she wanted attention so we cuddled for a good minute before I went back into the kitchen. But then next time was a lot shorter so I decided to sit her in a baby chair on the kitchen bench. It worked for a little while&#8230;. By that stage dinner was almost done so I let her down. She hung off my legs (and also let go sometimes and went walking a few steps towards a cupboard) for the last 5 minutes. Then we sat down for dinner and ate together. Sofia takes her time and enjoys her food. She sat down eating for 45-50minutes! Then daddy was home and we went through the nighttime routine together. Once again Sofia goes crazy crying when I&#8217;m about to put her to bed. Clinging to me :(. I stroke her tummy until she was calm and then we left. Sofia cried and sat up so I went back in after a few minutes. I was only going to put her back down but her desperate cry got to me. I picked her up, but even that didn&#8217;t seem enough so I put her on me I in the chair and we cuddled. She got calm and I thought she was going to try to sleep, but then she looked at me with that cheeky smile and started talking to me &#8211; cooing and smiling. Soooo I put her back into bed with a few belly rubs and then left. She only cried for a couple of minutes before she fell asleep.<\/p>\n<p>Sofia threw a ball for the first time today. I didn&#8217;t even show her how (which probably works in her favour). 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She had a snack and a play whilst I made us brekky. Mike got up at the end and took over do I could have a shower. Then he got ready for work. For the first time today Sofia let us know she didn&#8217;t want him [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"gallery","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3050","post","type-post","status-publish","format-gallery","hentry","category-sofia","post_format-post-format-gallery"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/4elise.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3050","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/4elise.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/4elise.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/4elise.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/4elise.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3050"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/4elise.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3050\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3058,"href":"https:\/\/4elise.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3050\/revisions\/3058"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/4elise.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3050"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/4elise.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3050"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/4elise.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3050"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}